Is your child struggling with harsh coaching? No matter how she performs the coach constantly yells. Negativity sets in and starts to affect not only her game, but every area of her life and she begins to feel overwhelmed and bad about herself. Starting to sound familiar? I struggled with this for years as a young athlete until I learned this….
Performance = Potential- Interference
Iterference is all our negative belief patterns. Most if not All of these patterns were created at a very young age when our brains were still forming. Many times we don’t even know we have them!
We have to clear the Interference…..
With my proven RACE formula I can teach you how to clear these negative beliefs for good.
I am sure that well meaning coaches have told you to “just belive in youself,” right? Before I found this system I was that coach! Because we all know you have to feel good to play good! Well in order to feel good you have to get to the root of the problem, the interference, and clear it out.
So What does that mean for your coach. You care what they think right? But you are probably telling yourself a FALSE story in your head that is about how they “disapprove of or reject you because of your poor play or mistake or choke.” You might think that because of the reaction you see on their face or something they said to you.
What’s the real TRUTH about that? The TRUTH is, they just feel bad for you, with you. They feel bad because you feel bad. There’s no rejection there. In fact, that’s really connection! It’s called sympathy or empathy. They don’t think any worse of you as a person, or a player.
They know full well the deadly accurate truth that everyone makes outs or mistakes in baseball and softball…even the greatest professionals. Why would they think that it shouldn’t happen to you if it’s happened to the greatest in history? Even if, even if they get on you and tell you how you should have done something different, the deadly accurate TRUTH is, they just want you to learn from it and improve so you do it better the next time.
Go with the deadly accurate truth, not the made up stories in your head that make you feel rejected. Those are false and don’t exist any more than 8-legged space aliens.
And by the way, That’s the exact same deadly accurate truth about your parents too no matter how they react from your play on the field. So stop making up useless false stories in your head about failure, pressure and rejection. If you don’t know the truth, ask your parent or a trusted adult for that.
Don’t just believe the crazy false stories running in your head making you feel bad. You don’t have to any more. You get to choose the stories you tell yourself about things that happen in your life. Working with me, I will give you the tools to change the story in your head.
Together WE CAN DO THIS!